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Thomas J. Kane

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No Shame In Loving Yourself
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No Shame In Loving Yourself

I used to think that self-affirmations and self-help books were stupid. Looking in the mirror and talking to yourself about who you are and who you want to be is silly. It’s not silly. And it’s not stupid. People don’t do it enough, honestly. You can’t expect other people to…
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Stop Playing Victim In Situations You've Created
Advice Self Improvement

Stop Playing Victim In Situations You’ve Created

There were times in my life when I felt pitiful. I was homeless twice, once at 23 and living in the park recovering from a party and drug ghetto lifestyle, thinking I was going to die. And at 33, again, when my business crashed, my girlfriend died, my truck got…
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When Even Kindness Has Its Limits
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When Even Kindness Has Its Limits

Be mindful to realize when you are supporting someone’s habit of constantly leaning on others to stand for themselves. You do not help someone who is constantly taking and never giving back; you not only hurt yourself by eventually becoming resentful about the situation, but you hurt the person you…
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Whom Should You Be Seeking Advice From?
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Whom Should You Be Seeking Advice From?

When you have problems, seek advice from people who have what you want, not from people who are in the same boat, having the same problems. Relationship issues? Talk to a counselor or seek advice from someone you know who has the kind of relationship you are looking for. Work…
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Do What You Love
Advice Motivation Self Improvement

Do What You Love

This is where I spend most of my life, behind these monitors. I actually love my station and I love waking up at 4 am to get stuff done. I do more between the hours of 4 am and 9 am than most people do in a whole week at…
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How You See The World Is A Reflection Of Yourself
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How You See The World Is A Reflection Of Yourself

A thief tends to think other people are going to try to steal from them. A cheater tends to think the other person is also cheating. A liar will tend to think everyone else is lying. A gossiper will tend to assume other people are also gossiping about them. Someone…
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